expectations

Once you want to fulfil everyone’s expectations, you end up with remarks from each of them. That’s so unfair. No matter how much I would deny that I don’t care what other people think, I know that’s not true. And if other people tell me so, I don’t believe them. We are ingrained in the culture. And of course we don’t care about other people’s opinion, but only if their view doesn’t mean anything to us. Rarely is it so. Everyone wants to create his dreamed- of image and be perceived in this very way. I just need to feel good with myself and my surrounding is indispensable for that. But at the same time, I’m aware of the fact that sometimes I need to choose the better option not the only right one- to keep balance in my mind.